Entry: Rapid developments Wednesday, June 16, 2004



Dear Friends and Family,

The past couple of days have seen rapid developments in a down direction for my brother. He was released from the hospital on Monday afternoon, but overnight his condition began to deteriorate dramatically. On Tuesday morning he was admitted to inpatient hospice care at Norton Audobon here in Louisville.

He is getting excellent and compassionate care the the staff in hospice has been extraordinarily kind.  

He's now resting comfortabily and the nursing staff tells us the end is near-- perhaps in the next day or two, maybe less. Of course, no one can be sure about these things, but that is the best information we have.
 
The Barnes clan is gathering. Beth and Tim and Lili came in last night and Joe and Julie will arrive today.  

We know that some of you would like to come by and say goodbye to this man we all love so much. We welcome your presence, but we would make one request of you: Please call before you come. We want to keep the noise levels and comings and goings to a steady level to give Jon peace, so we'd like to be sure there aren't too many people at one time.  

I have Jon's cell phone, so if you'd like to come, please call his phone and we'll arrange a time. Please understand that if you do not get an answer, we may be at the most difficult time and forigve o tentiveness at that moment.

With much love and gratitude-- and a few tears -- for all your love and support. We'll give you more information as we have it.

Kathleenl 

   2 comments

Heather McAdams
June 17, 2004   09:29 PM PDT
 
Jon,

I will never forget when Tim told me that you were coming to live in Tulsa for a bit..your family is such a special one that I was excited to meet a new member..it was so much fun..hearing your takes on life,adventure and your passion for what you do. It was fun to have someone who truly loved Thai and Indian food...LOLOLOLOL...other than me in T-Town..what can I say..I am selfish..my heart is full...I will miss not knowing that you are there.Have a glorious and peaceful passage.
Christi Ulmer
June 17, 2004   10:53 AM PDT
 
I am a student in the clinical psych program at UofL and met Jon only once after a talk that he and Dan presented on Buddhism and psychotherapy. When I met Jon, I knew that I wanted to know more about him. His warm gaze and attentiveness told me that he is someone who has travelled a long way on the path. Jon-I will be thinking of you and your family as I sit in the days to come in support of a peaceful passing.

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